Ahhh sabar je dulu mama, 39 minggu tu mmg dah dalam tahap akhir & rasa sakit bawa perut + pinggang tu memang biasa jugak before actual labour, tapi kena perhatian sikit kalau contractions tu makin kerap & makin kuat atau ada bleeding/discharge yang pelik. A few of my mum friends yang first time also went through the same, some rasa sakit macam tu for a few days before actual labour, some lagi lama, so setiap orang berlainan je. Sebaiknya cerita kat doctor/midwife pasal the pain patterns & frequency so depa boleh confirm whether it's just Braxton Hicks atau dah labour coming, jangan tahan je, especially since this is your first! mama, almost there!