Just a random musing, most people say having baby can save a failing relationship. I have never been able to understand this. Is it true, does that work?

doesn't at all... and it is highly unfair to the kids, as they end up becoming the pawns in the entire relationship that has already gone bad

I actually think it could. Some times marriage stales because you have no common interest. The baby then becomes a common love.

No! Babies sometimes may even ruin a marriage when both side even agreeable on it.

thanks