Jus had a quarrel with my hubby.. I'm a SAHM . I have Two kids. Every day after my hubby's work , I desire that he spend a bit of time to bond with our kids. Jus 30 mins is good cos I understand that he is tired after work so I try to be reasonable . Jus now we started to have some disagreement over something n he begins to say things like give him a break after work , he is tired n can't help out so much with the kids.. etc.. he Meant to say that I'm a SAHM , I should do everything , why involve him n ask him to help with this n that. Though I'm a SAHM but my role is not easy too n i feel tired too after one whole day of looking after kids, cooking , housework etc. I don't laze around , I work hard the whole day too. Then he told me if it is so hard for me to be a SAHM , then I should jus quit being a SAHM n go out to work . At least I can bring home income.. I feel so upset .. am I really v demanding ? Sob.

Vô danh

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My daughter in law is also a stay at home mum but my son still helps out in the evenings when he comes home. I feel this shd be the way. Both are tired and there shd be give and take. Sometimes he feeds the youngest while she prepares dinner. If your husband is too tired can still play with baby while you do other chores.

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Home Just Mums jus had quarrel with hubby im sahm i have two kids every day after hubby work i desire that spend bit time bond with kids jus 30 mins good cos i understand that tired after work i try reasonable jus now started have some disagreement over something n begins say things like give him break after work tired n t help out much with kids etc meant say that im sahm i should everything why involve him n ask him help with n that though im sahm