Egoistic husband

Hmm… not siding anyone in this case but after getting pregnant, I solely depend on my husband now since we can’t afford a helper (no space) nor IFC. At times when I see that my bank account is running out of money or that I have to reach out to my husband for money, made me feel very very useless yet there’s nothing I can do about it. Everytime I talked to my husband, he will tell me don’t worry about money but I know his pay cannot sustain the 3 of us for long. Sometimes I just want to take a break from my baby, my husband, anything.. just me and myself. No talks. On the other hand, i know how it feels being ignored and lack of concern as a preggo. At times when I’m hungry in the middle of the night, my husband just ignored me which made me rage and question myself why. At times, he seems to forget that I’m pregnant and he won’t give in to me when we quarrel. Every single time when we quarrel, he either keep quiet or say don’t know which made my blood boils. Maybe try to apply the 69 rule and try to see if you can understand why is he reacting this way?

a penny of my thoughts. man. nvm earn lesser. cannot lazy. there are alot jobs a person can do. is just willing to do or not. i earn more than my hubby. n when he doesnt have a ft job in the past, he works part time, hard labour, long hours. so he can bring home money. and i admire him for that. im not sure what ur husband is thinking or doing. but i wouldnt withstand such behaviour. so what he always walk very fast? u r pregnant. he shld walk beside u. has he always been treating u this way in the past? when not pregnant also? dont give excuses for ur husband. women shldnt put themselves down and defend the husband, n make yourself upset. are there any reasons why u are not working? in-laws or ur parents cannot help u take care of ur child while u work too? when a man cannot provide, they have ego too. they may feel sad n stressed abt the next one coming. all in all, communication is key. he has to talk.

Maybe he need time to get used to not having car.. after years of not taking public and suddenly need to take public, i’ll get cranky too. Give him time to settle down and get used to not having car. And for you mummy, dont stress too much okay.

you know sometimes the husband is struggling too. that man is supposed to give you and the children a good life but I'm guessing finance is a problem and thats why he's very stressed. Maybe you could calm down and talk to him nicely.