Ang Bao as a single parent

I’m a single mom (not working) and i was told by my friends i don’t have to give ang bao because i’m not working and because i am single. They understand that i have to save money for my kid and to purchase a house because of the cost of living However, my mom says i should give ang bao since my child will be receiving ang bao even though she knows i’m not working, otherwise it will be rude and greedy. She say she doesn’t allow me to see her side of her family unless i am going to give ang bao. What is the take on this? I get where my friend is coming from because even if i do get a job, i am raising a kid on 1 person’s income and starting pay is not very high. I also get where my mom is coming from but i feel it isn’t so bad. The ang bao her family gives me won’t be going to me but to my child (i won’t be taking the ang bao money back because it is his blessing money so it will go into his bank) . But because of this… i may not get to see her side for a few years because even if i do have a job, it will take awhile for me to be stable enough to have savings to give ang bao (she has a big family). What is the proper etiquette of this? #advicepls #advice #cny