Confinement period is already so physically and emotionally draining, and feeling unsupported on top of that is really, really tough. A few of my mum friends went through something similar where the husband just could not step up in those early weeks, and honestly the exhaustion plus the hormones made everything feel so much heavier. It does not make your feelings wrong at all, you are carrying so much right now. When things settle a bit, it might be worth having a proper calm conversation with him about what specific help you actually need, because sometimes they genuinely do not see it unless we spell it out clearly lah.