RANTING!!!

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im so pissed with my husband..LO is less than 1 month im still in confinement i went through alot of stuff and i wasnt able to takecare of myself properlyHe:-Doesent help much-Cant provide much money.. like hello i earn most of the income..-Cant do simple stuff right-Games-Never really bothered about my well being(he tries but nope)Keep telling me he have adhd and hes trying to rememberi am trying to be understandingBut who is there to care for me??I might as well be a f** single mum??I can pay for my child cos i am financially stablei can handle my child myselfwith or without him theres no difference

Mama syisyi · Answer

Confinement period is already so physically and emotionally draining, and feeling unsupported on top of that is really, really tough. A few of my mum friends went through something similar where the husband just could not step up in those early weeks, and honestly the exhaustion plus the hormones made everything feel so much heavier. It does not make your feelings wrong at all, you are carrying so much right now. When things settle a bit, it might be worth having a proper calm conversation with him about what specific help you actually need, because sometimes they genuinely do not see it unless we spell it out clearly lah.