Take a breather. Take naps when baby is sleeping. Learn to understand your baby’s cues. It gets overwhelming many times especially when you’re a SAHM with no other help. But you need to juggle your feelings and your baby at the same time.
Husbands who are sole breadwinners are like that mostly. Don’t be bothered by what he thinks of you being a SAHM. He’s got his own fair share of stress and workload just like you.
Settle into a routine with the baby, what’s important is you need to rest when baby is sleeping. If it is not working, try asking for a someone to come and help you around the house. Just for a few hours probably. It gets better when baby grows older. Hang in there Mama, you’re doing great. ❤️
I’m a SAHM too since my baby was 7 months old. Now she’s 20 months. I’ve vent my anger on her many times only to regret it a few seconds later. I don’t even bother speaking to my husband about how tired it is having to take care of her. I’ll just show face or tantrum.. hahaha but I cool off easily cause it doesn’t help with my mental health.
I settle her down into a routine everyday roughly like this:
7am - wake up, milk
9am - back to sleep
12pm - wake up, milk, shower
1pm - lunch & play time
3pm - nap
5pm - wake up, milk, play time
7pm - dinner, shower
9.30pm - milk, bed time