I'm keen to wean my 2.5yo off the breast because it's getting a bit too much for me. We co-sleep and he latches almost the entire night but mostly for comfort. His younger Brother drinks before sleeping then sleeps through the night so at least I don't have to struggle with two. Any tips to help with the older one?
Have you tried a pacifier for the older child? If it's just comfort latching, maybe the pacifier wouldn't be such a bad idea? Will save you some heartbreak over losing sleep...