Don’t feel bad. You’re doing the best you can. Babies can only cry as that’s their only way of communicating with us. Over time, you’ll learn how to soothe your baby to sleep on your own. Nothing wrong to send baby to nursery while in hospital. I did just that cause I wanted to rest and get some sleep. But the nurses pushed my baby back to me 3hrs later to feed. On a brighter note, you get to have that special bond with baby. Get as much help you can when you’re home too so you can rest & recover.