There are a few things you can try out:
-> When you have plan with your friends, your wife takes care of the kid and vice-versa
-> Can you leave your kid with some family member or any other couple friend who have kids? You can take care of their kids when they have plans so works both both of you :)
-> Have a nanny if you have plans
-> For some events, its ok to take your kid along esp if your other friends have kids too :)
Good luck and let us know what worked for you!!
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