Mama, wag mag-alala, walang judgment dito! Honestly, at 37+ weeks kaya mo yan, at alam mo ang katawan mo best, kung ano ang comfy at ano ang hindi, ganun lang yan. Both masturbation and partner intimacy can help with cervical ripening kasi both trigger oxytocin, so whatever feels okay sa'yo physically at emotionally is the right call; kung masakit talaga with your partner, then solo time is perfectly fine and honestly mas stress-free pa. Pero since wala pang signs ng progress kahit maraming try na, please mention this sa OB mo sa next visit, baka may ibang approach na better for your situation or baka kailangan na lang wait para sa baby's timing. You're doing great trying all these things, pero remember din na sometimes babies come when they're ready talaga, hindi sa pressure natin. Keep me posted, mama!