Please dont judge me.

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Im 37 weeks and 4 days, and sabi ni ob ko, close pa daw cervix ko as maliit sipit sipitan ko. I am taking primerose oil orally 2x a day for the past 14 days and as of now, wala pa talaga akong maramdaman at hindi pa bumababa si baby. Meron nagsabi na magpagamit ako sa hubby ko as for me to open my cervix, however when we tried napakasakit!, parang hindi na sanay ang k*ffy ko na may maglabas masok, I tried to endure just to make progress but after nun, wala talaga. I also tried walking, squats at taas baba sa hagdan pero puro paninigas lang at discharge wala pa talagang signs na bumaba si baby. Now, I resorted to what I think is the next best thing which is masturbation and nipple stimulation. Is it ok na mag masturbate than doing the deed? Or mas maganda parin yung may physical stimulation with your partner?

Maria Reyes Garcia · Answer

Mama, wag mag-alala, walang judgment dito! Honestly, at 37+ weeks kaya mo yan, at alam mo ang katawan mo best, kung ano ang comfy at ano ang hindi, ganun lang yan. Both masturbation and partner intimacy can help with cervical ripening kasi both trigger oxytocin, so whatever feels okay sa'yo physically at emotionally is the right call; kung masakit talaga with your partner, then solo time is perfectly fine and honestly mas stress-free pa. Pero since wala pang signs ng progress kahit maraming try na, please mention this sa OB mo sa next visit, baka may ibang approach na better for your situation or baka kailangan na lang wait para sa baby's timing. You're doing great trying all these things, pero remember din na sometimes babies come when they're ready talaga, hindi sa pressure natin. Keep me posted, mama!

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