For me, I don’t wait until I am wet to be with my husband. I’ll make the first move. He’s just lying there like a dead log. I’ll go down on him, make sure he’s fully turned on, then go on top and do the deed until it’s over. I don’t even bother getting an orgasm from sex with him cause I know it’ll never happen anymore since I got pregnant. My sex drive has been really pathetic I can’t even. Get it over and done with, I must say. You want to induce labour by having sex, maybe you should just forget about having an orgasm for a start since lubricants and everything else don’t work for you then build up your sex drive again after you give birth. You just want semen to loosen up your cervix, probably that’s what you can settle with for now. 😉
Try switching/trialling out different positions if you have not. I've been experiencing vaginal dryness eversince 3rd trimester and I find doggy position to be so uncomfortable & non enjoyable. Me being on top works way better and even though I don't really get orgasm from it, atleast its a great workout for me and my partner enjoys it. Haha *Also try out water based lubricants you're allergic to silicon ones
Perhaps talk to your husband about how it’s not that you don’t love him or aren’t attracted to him but it’s your fears of inducing labour and also your bodily changes? Then work with him to have some foreplay or compromise on how u can maybe give him an orgasm without penetration?
Maybe try to have an orgasm by yourself first? Other than that try lubricants.
Not all lubes work the same way. Try Preseed.
Sigh. Not horny or wet for me since 25weeks.. help. Lubricant should help
Same! And nope lubricant didn’t help we tried.. i think im allergic to it.
More foreplay effort on your husband and use lubricant.
Watch some rated stuff to get yourself wet first?
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