Im not 40 yet but advanced age enough for gynae to do lots of tests. I feel you. But nowadays there are advanced mothers out there also, it’s getting more common. Don’t worry so much, treat it as last pregnancy and enjoy the moment
As a mother, it’s always a lifetime worry liao. No need to add unneccesary more. Keep positive thinking and feel blessed.
I feel my current pregnancy will also be my last, so I join prenatal yoga lah, prenatal pilates lah and just enjoy whatever privilege a pregnant woman can have, e.g. people giving me seats on MRT willingly, harhar
Felicity