thoughts

The age gap more r less it’s nothing matters, me n my bro 4yrs gap we r very frndly as well, it’s depends on the behaviour .. boy boy always fights , girl boy don’t do much n also girl girl also lil fighting’s should b there .. whatever the fightings r discussions comes, at the end of the day both can’t stay without talking .. so don’t think too much of the age gap..

2 years gap between siblings is ideal. As for financial wise, as long as there is dual income (both husband and wife are working), it shouldn’t pose much problem supporting two kids as long as spending is within means. :)

My husband age gap with his sister 2 years... but they are not close at all... As for me and my brother we are 8years apart but we are close.... So i think really have to depend on the upbringing also

Have to communicate with your Husband. After all having a child is 2 person’s responsibility.

2-3 years age gap is ok. Plus its more about personality and how you raise the siblings rather than just age. Your husband's concern is also very valid, remember the average cost of raising one child to adulthood is 500k so 2 children would be already 1 mil