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Personally coping ok with 1 kid and without helper as both husband n wife share the workload. Not comfortable of having to live with a stranger in the house as well.
If both husband and wife share the workload then not necessary for a helper. Hands-on may help in the bonding between parent and child.
I don’t think it’s necessary, but it does help relieve some of the parents duties, especially if both are working.
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it depends! if both parents are able to help each other with chores, and caring for the kid, it can be done.
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it depends on own situation. i prefer doing lots of things myself 🤣
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Nope. I’m fine without 1. Both daddy mummy are sharing the workload
If both parents are working, then yes.