Hai mama, aku faham lah risau tu, especially kalau pernah ada bad experience sebelum ni. Honestly, bersama ketika pregnant memang boleh je, tapi kena gentle dan comfortable untuk both of you lah, jangan force kalau rasa tight, cramping, or bleeding lepas tu. A few of my mum friends cakap they just did things normally je, tapi ada jugak yang took it easy especially first trimester or kalau doktor dah advise to avoid due to any complications. Better check dengan doktor ye, especially considering your history, dia boleh assess your pregnancy situation specifically dan give you the green light atau adjustments yang perlu. Main thing is listen to your body, take it slow, dan stop if anything feels off!