im just tired

I wish someone could tell the husband To not be rough with her when consoling To love & be kind with her through her tantrums To be patient with her I'm tired of having to remind him to be gentler, afterwards he'll get upset & says that he's trying to help me with the baby too. Then passes LO to me & walk off. Having a kid supposed to bring joy to the family but all im feeling is just sadness. When i look at LO, I'll feel the joy & happiness. But when LO cries, i feel the anxiety... scared if hubs gets upset with her crying. Handling a cranky baby is tiring enough. Why do i need to tiptoe around the hubs too, sigh... LO is only 2 months, we still have a long way to go. I cant imagine having to go through teething or other developmental tantrums/leaps with him