My point of view
I think all relationship goes thru those stages where in you're too comfortable to each other and the kilig moments goes away relationship works if both are doing their best to Make it work, personally - Do learn to like yourself and your life. What is making you unhappy? What is stressing you out? What is holding you back? Take responsibility for your own life and make the necessary changes to enhance it. Start taking better care of yourself -- physically and emotionally -- to improve your energy, outlook and self-confidence. Partners who "have it together" are more fun and appealing than those who don't.

