My point of view

Question

I think all relationship goes thru those stages where in youre too comfortable to each other and the kilig moments goes away relationship works if both are doing their best to Make it work, personally - Do learn to like yourself and your life. What is making you unhappy? What is stressing you out? What is holding you back? Take responsibility for your own life and make the necessary changes to enhance it. Start taking better care of yourself -- physically and emotionally -- to improve your energy, outlook and self-confidence. Partners who have it together are more fun and appealing than those who dont.

Isolde Quirante · Answer

Totoo yan, ate! The kilig doesnt last forever, and thats actually normal, parang yung first few months ng motherhood, super exciting then reality kicks in, diba? A few of us mums talk about this all the time, at yung key talaga is both partners need to keep investing, hindi lang ride the wave ng comfort. But youre so right na kailangan muna mag-focus tayo sa sarili natin, kung stressed, overwhelmed, or unhappy kami, mahirap mag-give ng best version namin sa relationship. Once na-address natin ang sarili natin, physically and emotionally, nakikita ng partner natin yung change, at parang automatically mas okay na ang dynamics ng relationship.