Totoo yan, ate! The kilig doesn't last forever, and that's actually normal, parang yung first few months ng motherhood, super exciting then reality kicks in, diba? A few of us mums talk about this all the time, at yung key talaga is both partners need to keep investing, hindi lang ride the wave ng comfort. But you're so right na kailangan muna mag-focus tayo sa sarili natin, kung stressed, overwhelmed, or unhappy kami, mahirap mag-give ng best version namin sa relationship. Once na-address natin ang sarili natin, physically and emotionally, nakikita ng partner natin yung change, at parang automatically mas okay na ang dynamics ng relationship.