Couple problems

I am nearing week 36 of pregnancy and I get emotional. Recently my husband got reunited with an old schoolmate and they chat all day and night using voice note. I do overhear their conversations and it's really just normal chatting. But somehow I can't help but feel uncomfortable that he's chatting from morning to midnight 2am with the girl. I know I shouldn't be petty over this, and he also explained that she's just a friend and there won't be any other relationship between them. But I just feel that his time for me has been taken away somehow because he replies so quickly to the girl, sometimes even ignoring what I am saying when we're having dinner or small talks. #advicepls #coupleissues #marriage #trust

Vô danh

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I honestly don't think you're being petty here. First of all, how isit that they have topics to talk about all day long while being just normal friends? Everything starts from normal conversations and you're definitely not being unreasonable here for voicing out to your husband that you're feeling uncomfortable. I think most people would feel the same. I mean if it's just short conversations, i am okay but if he is spending more time talking to the other party instead of me, I would think that he actually prefers sharing things with her instead? It takes 'interest' from both parties to keep the conversations going. Plus you're preggy now, he should be more aware and sensitive on how you're feeling. Talk to your husband, hopefully he can validate your feelings and spend more time with you instead.💕

Vô danh

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Exactly my thoughts...I told him I don't feel special knowing that he's sharing things that I knew, with the girl as well. But he just flings it off stating that the girl already knew about the things he shared when they were still schoolmates. But the question is, how come he need to share when she already know? So long never catch up with one another also not to this extent. He even tried to tell me that in his country, regardless of gender, they always have many things to talk about. I told him off. I said I don't see him talking to his guy friends all day and night what 🙄

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