Couple problems

This situation happened to me once, except that it was my hub and his colleague. Call me sensitive but I believe nowadays everyone started out with a Hi? We don’t just randomly see someone for the first time and have a kid (not referring to anyone). My husband can show me a black face but when talking to his colleague, can smile like he see $1M when texting. When that colleague fetches us (she drives) to his company gathering, he will sit infront and totally forgot about my existence at the back. When I talk, he just ignores me and continues to find topic to talk to her. What I did was I told my husband how I feel about the situation and explained to him my concerns. I asked him : “You may tell me you are someone who don’t and won’t cheat, but what if 5 years down the road if this situation continues, one day you just tell me I’m sorry I think I’m in love with her. Then what you want me to do? Are you very sure you won’t?” I didn’t force him to cut off that particular colleague, I just told him to think about it. Since it’s no longer about the two of us now..

I honestly don't think you're being petty here. First of all, how isit that they have topics to talk about all day long while being just normal friends? Everything starts from normal conversations and you're definitely not being unreasonable here for voicing out to your husband that you're feeling uncomfortable. I think most people would feel the same. I mean if it's just short conversations, i am okay but if he is spending more time talking to the other party instead of me, I would think that he actually prefers sharing things with her instead? It takes 'interest' from both parties to keep the conversations going. Plus you're preggy now, he should be more aware and sensitive on how you're feeling. Talk to your husband, hopefully he can validate your feelings and spend more time with you instead.💕