Hi I m completed 8 years of my marriage we have two daughters, but we fight with each other so many times. He is so much busy with his day to day work that he has no time for me and because of this I get frustrated n we start fighting. I badly need him but he don't understand what should I do?

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i can so understand your situation and your emotions, because i have been through the same myself. as someone who has lived with loneliness and handled two daughters mostly myself, i will suggest that you start looking for work options that you can do either from home or from outside, depending on the age of your kids and their care arrangements. one of the most important thing for you right now is to become financially independent and also use your time in a constructive way, for yourself. if you don't want to get into a job, you can do something that interests you - maybe take a cooking or baking class, teach dance or art, give tuitions - whatever you are interested in and something that also preferably can get you some money. and hey, try not to fight in front of the kids. the day you start taking time out for yourself, you'll feel happier, and your kids will benefit from the same too. and when your hubby sees you don't need him all the time, he himself will come for you. stay strong :)

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Thanks dear as I lives in panipat there is no job options,I have done professional baking course in cakes, I have started baking classes but not so good response not able to understand what should I do, and for outside job ny daughters are too young one is 6 other is 1 1\2