Congrats sa baby, mama! Nakikita ko kung gaano ka-conflicted ngayon, and that's totally valid, excited ka for your second baby pero worried sa family dynamics, which is so real. Here's what I want you to hear: hindi ka burden, at ang pagtatrabaho ng asawa mo plus yung investments niya (bahay, lupa) means you two are planning for your family's future, even if it doesn't look perfect right now. A lot of us mums have been in that space where we feel like we're disappointing our parents habang nag-aalaga ng anak, and it's so heavy, pero choosing your daughter's health when she was sick? That was the right call, and your parents knew it too. I think before you make any big decisions about leaving or hiding the pregnancy, maybe have a calm talk with your dad when he's not in "problem-solving mode", sometimes parents get stuck in worry-mode and forget to say "I'm proud of you" kaya it comes out as criticism lang. Your worth isn't measured by what you contribute financially or how many chores you do, especially ngayon na pregnant ka na naman. Pero this heaviness you're carrying sounds like it needs more support than internet advice, would it help to talk to someone, like a counselor or even your OB? They're trained to help with these feelings, and it's important para sa pregnancy mo too. You deserve to enjoy this second pregnancy, mama, and you're not useless.