do u prefer to have ur mil as ur confinement lady?

If you have good relations with ur MIL, why not. However, after giving birth, our hormones may be haywire and adjusting thus we might be sensitive. So having a MIL to take care of you might trigger conflict if prolly she is those whom would make insensitive comments. If you dont mind being told how to take care of the baby and urself then just follow what ur hubby wants, save cost too.