IMO no matter what you do also will get uncalled remarks so just ignore.
I was a low supply mum, struggled with countless mastitis and lack of sleep only to let a stranger tell me “Your milk is useless after 4mo, you shouldn’t feed her. She should eat solids instead when my baby is 8mo.”
I would personally tell them, it’s my boobs, my baby, whether or not I bf is my problem and moreover, I didn’t ask you for money to buy formula you kpo so much for what? You have your own baby, take care of your own baby, no need to bother about mine. I won’t harm my child, even myself is formula fed and I grew up strong and well. Either ways they will end up eating junk food what.
Ever since I became a mum, I have been showing no face to uncalled remarks even to my mil. Before I had my baby, I used to keep quiet and swallowed all the fire and burn myself, but now I can’t be bothered. I have enough problems and things to stress on, i don’t need more from you. You can advise, whether or not I want to take it should be my decision. Don’t force your decision on me. It’s the same thing if I were to produce a list of why you should formula feed will you take it? No what.
Just close both ears and eyes, be mean if you need to. 💪🏻