I have lost total freedom after having our baby. My wife makes sure I get home as soon as work is over - I have lost my time with my colleagues after work, friends and even relatives. I feel trapped. What can I do?

I'm afraid that I'm someone like your wife. :( But you know, we do things with reasons and trapping you doesn't count in. I don't think so. Not that we intend to. Main reason why I do such to my husband is because I want to involve him more with our baby. Especially in my case where I also go to work too and for the fact that we stay together with my parents. I for one also lost time for my friends/relatives but it doesn't mean I can't make up for that loss. I mean if only things are planned well, you can always find time. If the baby's suitable enough for travels or mallings, I think a little catch up with friends tucking your baby along is not a bad idea. But then again, let your wife know that you have such plan. Who knows she has better ideas on how you can do the catch up? :) Taking care of your baby should always be a team effort. Don't take your wife asking for your presence negatively. You can always talk things. Remember she has been through a lot (physically, emotionally). You did too but let's be more realistic. No one's gonna help her better than her partner. Aren't you happy that you're her favourite go-to in taking care of your baby? Need to say more but I guess I've shared enough sentiments already to paint a picture.