I have a gay friend who adopted her friend's baby (now 8 years old). It was as per her friend's request because of family problems and financial incapabilities. Plus, it was an unplanned pregnancy. However, after going back to Manila, her friend is already asking for her child back. I find it unfair for my friend but I also understand the plight of the real mom. I've seen her raising the child so well. How do I give advice to her?

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I feel for both the real mom and the other mom. Tough times right here! It is quite hard to make up for the years that gone by so it is not best to just show up and confuse the child. I do agree with Chrystall. After all, they are friends and mothers in their own right. At the end of the day, they may very well be thinking of the child's welfare more than that of their own.

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Home Just Mums i have gay friend who adopted friend baby now 8 years old was friend request because family problems financial incapabilities plus was unplanned pregnancy however after going back manila friend already asking child back i find unfair friend but i understand plight real mom ive seen raising child how i give advice