Been there. I had a vaginal birth, no helper but both my mum and in-laws came over my place a bit for a few days to help out with bathing NB and passing over confinement meals for me. My husband took a mth leave to help around the house while I care for the baby and toddler. It was tough w/o any help after that. I even went through post partum blues and my poor toddler had to bear all the scoldings. It was a lot on my plate to handle at that time until my husband notices my changes and help out as much as he can before going to work (he works 12 hrs shift) and during his off days. Sometimes I will sleep over at my parents when husband is on night shift. Having an NB & a toddler is not easy. Furthermore my toddler was the very clingy type and cries alot and also likes to follow me wherever I go even into the toilet so yes it was a tough period for me that time. My advice is seek help from your family, mum or in-laws until you think you can care for both your child yourself. Both your physical & mental health are very important so don't be shy to seek help from close ones when needed.
You need to seek help. Mother or Mother in law or any relative. because I went through hard time even with my mother's support
Hi Mum, Do you have any family members around to help you ?
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