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you should take it seriously. i am a guy and i dont know a single guy who is not interested in sex - if he is not "in the mood", his mind is probably distracted by some other thoughts. (doesnt mean he is having an affair, but a long term disinterest in sex is a definite problem) try something outside of routine, outside of your comfort zone. put on something sexy, seduce your man, pick a good timing when he is well rested, don't get stressed over the issue and instead focusing on having fun with him, don't get discouraged if it doesn't work well. if it doesnt work try something else, make it fun and easy, the worst thing you can do is to try to "talk it out" and stress over it.
I have a 1 year old kid, honestly I can tell you that we weren't intimate as much as before marriage. It's devastating ! Why not have a heart to heart talk when the baby is sleeping ? Find out what's wrong ? Perhaps, it's time to put the baby with somebody that you can trust just for a night. Dress sexy, use candle to make the room smell nice, a good massage for him? But most importantly is to make sure that he's well rested
Perhaps both of you need to sit down and talk. Did he see you giving birth? Could he be that he fear that you will get preggy? He might be tired from work as well. Also, if he assist you to take care of baby, then he might really be too tired. Are you co-sleeping with the baby? He may feel uncomfortable. Have a word with him soon.
I think there are more ways to pleasure him than just plain sex, if you know what I mean. *wink* Try not to be direct and do ensure he is not weary or tired. Also make sure you are ready for it. There is a time for everything. Anything done at a wrong time is a recipe for disaster.
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gosh im opp, i am totally not in the mood.. though hubby tried to make advances..we only did it once whn i was in second trimester after that no more till now i have already delivered 4 months ago..
U can try to talk to him on how u feel... Make him realise tt u still need him.. If things are really bad... Its better to go fer a counseller...before things escalate up real quick..
I think u need to have a good talk with him in regards to this. find out whats the problem . Let him know not communicate will only make things worse.
staycation!! Have some quality personal time and dress up sexy. probably something lacy? You can spice up the atmosphere and seduce him :)
Totally agree about not talking it out and just aim for a romantic night when he's Super well rested - any chance to plan for a staycation?