unprotected Sex

Question

i had an Dilation and curettage 4weeks pregnant that time. i thought i made a decision na to seperate sa fiance ko but when he found out sa nangyare ngpunta agad. Kita ko naman bumabawi siya talaga may ugali lang din talaga sya pag galit masakit magsalita . At eto ako naging marupok. My fault is alam ko naman sinabi din after D&C grabe pagkahorny ko as in. Ilan days palang napapayag na nya ko mag do. at grabe siya sunod sunod na putok sa loob kasi ayaw nga ko magpills nakaka dagdag sa depression daw yun. 2weeks after pa naman ako mag oovulate sabi sa google ganon. Dec 2 ako na D&C now 10days nako nakailan na rin kami. Anung contraceptive kaya okay maliban sa oral kasi lakas tama ko? I am so undecided at iba hormones ko na now iiyak maging okay ganun.

Isolde Quirante · Answer

Aw sis, totally get how youre feeling, those hormones after D&C are real , and its okay na marupok tayo sometimes. Kaya mo yan, dont be too hard on yourself. So marami sa amin, lalo na yung ayaw ng pills dahil sa side effects, sige sa copper IUD, walang hormones, one-time lang insert, tapos lasts up to 5 years na. Grabe siya effective, and a few of my mum friends swear by it dahil wala kang daily maintenance or hassle. The only thing some mums mention is yung periods might be slightly heavier or crampier for a bit, pero it settles eventually. Kung gusto mo ring non-hormonal pero less invasive, condoms + spacing/timing (since you know you ovulate around 2 weeks out) could work as backup while you decide. Pero honestly, since you just had D&C at sobrang triggered ka pa emotionally (totally valid!), worth mo talaga pag-consult sa OB-GYN mo mismo, she can check if your cervix is ready for IUD insertion at i-explain ang best option para sa your body at situation. Kaya mo ito.