Csect recovery

Hi, i just gave birth last sunday through emergency csect and i am struggling with everything. I feel like my energy is drained out and to my surprise i am not enjoying becoming a mother as I thought i will be. I do have amazing support system helping me but i dont know why i feel afraid. I feel afraid of the night feeds and not getting enough rest and just feel everybody takes better care of my baby than me. How do i feel better about this situation? I feel like i just want to run away from everything.

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Its just a phase that will pass eventually. Its ok to feel like this. I didnt have a confinement lady and i do not have anyone who can help other than hb. He is hands on but the initial part i kept crying because my gal keeps crying n i feel like my hb isnt bothered and only care about his slp. Anyway 9 mths down the road i still lack of slp 😅 you will b ok and tc of your baby urself when the time comes. My hb had to go back to work previously so i dun have a choice, i had to make sure i can do it (although i couldnt really handle). My gal cant be easily put to slp and i dont even have proper meals coz when i wanna start, she will b shouting away 😅

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