Having a baby more than one?

hello.. I just gave birth 5 months ago. I started to think having 1 is enough and I don’t plan on getting another baby. I can’t cope and i felt that having another one in future will tire me more. Am i even allowed to make such decision?

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hey, its ok to feel that way and if u decide on having one n only one thats totally fine. 'raising a child takes a village' try to ask for help from ur hubby/parents/inlaws/siblings when u really need to cos u need to take care of urself too. sometimes its hard to ask for help cos we feel like we're burdening other people or we just find it hard to trust other ppl w our baby n its normal to feel that way. try to get even if its just an hour of extra uninterrupted sleep/nap/rest while someone else looks after ur baby for a while. the first year of the baby's life will feel looong but it will past by fast so we'll take it one day at a time. maybe after 3-5years u can think abt having another one if u want or no more 😅 up to u. hope this helps.

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