I feel that I m so emotionally dependent on my husband that whenever we have a fight and not on talking terms, I feel extremely low that I don't feel like doing anything.. I get super depressed. Also my husband is not at all pampering sorts which is one of the reasons I get annoyed with him. How do I deal with this and wat shift I do to keep myself going in such situations so that my daily routine doesn't get affected.

Hi, I feel for what you're going through. I feel it all could be due to lack of communication between you and your husband. Making the effort to have open discussions about issues such as this reduce chances of any other such problems popping up in your marriage. talk to him and tell him how you feel. Have you tried that? Men are very different communicators from women. They don't really get insinuations and hints. So, if something he is doing is annoying you, and it doesn't seem like he is reacting to your moods, please talk to him about it and be frank.