Uy, I feel you so much mama, that's a real struggle talaga, hindi lang hormones yan, kasi parang invisible ka na lang kahit gumagawa ka ng lahat every single day. A few of us mums talked about this din, and honestly the turning point was when we literally had to sit down with our partners and spell it out na hindi kami helper, kami ay equals, and we need them to see us doing the work, not just hear about their day. It's unfair na kailangan pang i-explain yan, pero sometimes ganyan talaga, they don't realize kung gaano ka-depleting ang invisible labor ng motherhood hanggang nasasabi nila directly. You deserve to be heard and appreciated too, mama, hindi lang audience siya sa buhay niya. Hang in there, pero don't lose yourself completely, kahit maliit lang, find pockets of time for you kasi deserve mo yun.