i'm sorry to hear about your loss po.. diabetic here even before pregnancy.. i was taking oral metformin fir almost 2mos bago ko nalaman na pregnant ako. i was referred to an endo and prescribed lupinsulin during pregnancy... it caused me a lot of stress too especially when both my OB and endo would tell me about possible effects of uncontrolled sugar.. but with the Lord's grace my daughter is okay, turning 1 year next month.. tiis tiis lang po especially with the food intake, avoid all sweets, starchy and softdrinks.. mire on water, veggies and fruits, lots of prayers din po.. God will see you through