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I can definitely relate! I don't look younger than my age, but I am a young mum - I'm 21 and have a 2-year-old son. While I can understand why people call me "xiao mei/meimei" when I'm alone (hardly happens though haha), I do get a lot of stares too! All I have to say is that you shouldn't be embarrassed or ashamed of it - that's just how you look, and it's a happy problem to look younger than you are :) While there are still many people who judge young parents, I've come across many that are accepting and encouraging! I get a lot more stares when I'm out with my son AND my dad, because people would be confused about our relationship with one another - we just look too alike. There's nothing wrong with looking young, or being a young mum - so just be who you are! ❤️

I feel the same sometimes too. Like how people judge that I'm a young parent. But I guess there's nothing much you can do about it. For your case , it's a blessing ! Just embraced you're blessed w a young face 😊 One Tip I try to tell myself every time I attend my daughter school event (tbh I dread them too) is to remind myself I'm here for her, and not for them.

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It's good to look youthful! I am the other way round from you. I'm 25. And im the youngest in my Elder son's class. Everyone though i am 30plus until i revealed my age during one of a group talk. and everyone got shocked. It's good with a young face! Embrace it mummy! Once you get older, you will still look youthful. people will be asking HOW U MAINTAIN IT! :D

me too. I am 30 and have a son, everyone always say I look like young mom. that kind of look and feeling don't feel good. But I don't care, u just carry on what I am doing is good to look young I always tell myself that. I am small build some more, make me look like underage. :D

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i knw wer u r coming frm. u shld b glad n happii abt it. id better to look youthful den old rite. appreciate it. nt everyone has it too. i m in my 30s. but ppl say i look 23 to 25. so i shld be happii abt it. i dun care watt ppl say. just listen. nod n walk off

Ppl oso call me xiao mei everywhr i go. I find it really pleasing to my ears actually! Isnt it gd tat ppl think tat we look young? I love it lots! If ppl ask if our LO is our son/daughter, wouldnt it be worse? Eg: is he your son or grandson?'

me too 36 if i go out alone, ppl still call me xiao mei or xiao jie...once my girl appear beside me...they immediately change to auntie. lol. just ignore the comment it just a title only. do have confidence in ur self....everyone is unique

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!I'm 29 this year with one 2 year old and pregnant with no2... I look like I'm in JC.. no choice.. just have a Kiddy face.. haha but I'm proud of it :)! Don't bother too much of what others think.

I look young for my age too. N I'm happy with that. I'm confident abt myself as a Mother n with me looking young, I'm happy n proud if Ple think that I'm young yet I can do well as a Mother ...

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