Was he like this before the marriage? May we know what trigger all this hostility? There must be a chain of events that broke the marriage somehow. If you can find the root cause and talk about it, there is a way to untie this knot.
Know that each party has their own side of story. What you see him as being hostile, he see you as pushing him to the limit.
All this fault finding is not helpful, we should try to find those knots and untie them.
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