Oh. I agree wif ur hubby. We used e cry it out method too when he was abt 1-3months old.. We had a hard time trying to rock him to slp at nite at tat time.. We carried & walked up & down, rocking him in our arms, and it took us so long to put him to slp..! So i tried e cry it out method in e daytime & nite time too. At nite, we put baby down on his cot & i hold both his arms down firmly to prevent him from struggling while he was crying. After crying for sometime, he stopped crying & fell asleep. It works after a month or so. Babies really need to be trained to slp.. If not, we will be too tired. I find tat if ur hubby can make him slp by using his method, y not? Juz bear wif it for awhile more. If ur baby starts learning to slp on his own by self soothing, both of u will not be so stressed up & tired. Maybe u can try going into ur room when ur hubby makes him slp. After he has slept, den u come out? U wont feel so heartpain like tiz.