I struggled with this when I was married. Husband is in F&B so he is genuinely tired after he comes home. The upset got to me for a bit; then I just relied on myself to get off. Sometimes when he hears me touching myself before bed, he decides to join in. It seems important to you that your needs are met. Perhaps you would like to find out what/how he gets aroused, and you both could work towards it. Big hugs Mummy!
I totally get you, it’s Super frustrating. I tried talking to my hubby but he said that’s the way he likes to “make love”
Have a talk with him. Find out what he thinking. Issit he too stress from working... Being tired after work
I think u need to find out the reason why he's not interested before you can find a solution
Discuss with him
Talk to him.
talk to him about how you feel. sometimes it might be he really is tired from work.
He’s probably getting his urges elsewhere
Talk to him about it.
Anonymous