My husband drinks a lot and also gets abusive after drinking. How do I help him get rid of this habit?

I think you have to have a chat with him when he is sober. He has to recognize that it is a problem and be willing to take steps to change. Have him take a look at this AA site: http://sg.theasianparent.com/risks-of-mmr-vaccine-could-it-cause-autism/http://www.singaporeaa.org/index.html see if he is open to attending the meetings. Or go to a counselor to help him kick the habit. http://www.wecare.org.sg/pdf/soar-flyer.pdf Take care of yourself and please protect yourself!