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A home cooked meal on the day before and a day off. Solely for himself, regardless of whether he wants to laze at home or have a gathering outside with his friends. No baby, no wife for his big day. I really want a rest day for my big day without baby or any interference…. But being a FTM, it’s impossible to leave my baby alone and I’m bf. I’m pretty sure my husband wants a rest day solely to himself too 😂.
Find out his love language first? Like for me I like gifts but my husband prefers quality time. From there you can slowly figure out what works best for him. Like Instead of buying gift for my hubby, i plan massage, nice food, movies time , staycation with just us two? Haha
1. Watch 2. Wallet 3. Bag - if he use 4. New device (like new laptop/tablet/ear buds/ps5 etc) 5. A good meal quality time It really depends on what your husband likes
My husband’s work requires lots of manual labour. I bought him a massage gun to help with his back and shoulder pains
We went for hotel buffet and I bought him airpods with engraving
PS5 if he’s a gamer like mine
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