Hi,
Sorry to hear that, will suggest you to see a marriage couseller to see if this marriage able to save. Divorcing will do certain impact on your child. Hope you can talk it out.
In sg there's no sole custody unless your husband give up or he is abusive. Usually is shared custody. Normally care and control will goes to mother but have to depend on situation too. If your hub is not fighting with you 3k legal fee if he is it can goes to 5 digit bill.
Anonymous