Hi dear, honestly im not fond of kids. I worried very much when i knew i had my second. Despite the planning, planning may not work according to what we hope either. In any case, back to a basic question how did we bring our kids up, does anyone know? Many times we just did it, there is ano manual to teach or guide us. Its natural. I did not like my no2, i hated him as well. But as time passed, i fell in love with him. How? I really dont know. But i guess we can always try our best, ask hubby to help. As much as you can speak with your older child, get him to help taking pampers for baby and take part in the activities as well. No one ever said it was easy, but its all worth it. If we dont, who would? You will get the hang of it after a while. Honestly, i have no friend, famiky nor can i afford anyone to baby sit. Its just me, myself and hub. Its impossible at times but somehow i pulled through. We have too :) not forgetting keep talking to your older child as well, make it an enjoyable experience for all of you. After all its meant to be bundles of joy!
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