My hubby suggested that we have a second one next year when my LO is 3 years old. (1) Is 3 years a good age gap? I am already struggling to take care of my LO now. I can't imagine to have a second one. :p (2) How do you all manage to cope with two kids with such an age gap, considering the first one is still quite young? My LO is quite needy now. (3) My hubby suggested to send my LO to childcare and hire a maid when the second one comes along. I am afraid my LO will feel neglected if that happens. How do you ensure that you give fair share of love and care to both kids?

Vô danh

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I had my no2 when my boy is past 3yrs. I think is a good age gap. U can send your child to childcare or maybe a couple of hours playgroup. U have to tell your no1, if u are expecting no2. Let no1 know that he/she is going to have a sibling soon and see wat is the reaction. Always shower no1 with a lot of care and love and attention!

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Home Just Mums hubby suggested that have second next year when lo 3 years old 1 3 years good age gap i already struggling take care lo now i t imagine have second p2 how manage cope with two kids with such age gap considering first still quite young lo quite needy now 3 hubby suggested send lo childcare hire maid when second comes along i afraid lo feel neglected if that happens how ensure that give fair share love care both kids