How do your educate your teens boys? My boy is 14yo and i caught him erecting and kept shutting himself behind doors. He doesnt use computer and his phone is always locked. What should i do?

Talk to him - adult to adult It’s Not a shameful thing Don’t turn it into something taboo He is also growing up and would want his own privacy too.... we were all that age once :) Last thing u want is for him to shun away from family