Oh god, you're planning to screw my kind, lol. But yeah, just be who you are, and honest ;) If you want to get something out of him, some work done, just say it.
Hi, Will echo 2 of the comments here: 1) Be straight to the point. Men are not good at hints. no drama or guilt. 2) Use positive reinforcement
I will wink at him and flip my hair. Just kidding! Just be kind and nice, and always be gracious for what he has done, I will also return favour if possible.
Looking at this from the receiving end... I think that its best to be straight forward and direct with a man. Quick and easy I guess?
From a husband (experience one) point of view, I would suggest being straight to the point is always a win.
thanks