Single mum

hey mummy. im not a single mum, im an unwed mum. even so, i basically have zero support from any side of family. im taking care of my own confinement now and baby, house chores and cooking. its tiring and difficult, no sugar-coating the harsh truth. however when baby comes, youll realized its all gonna worth it. ❤️ find something to do like hanging our with your friends, go for lunch. have tons of rest!after deliver, so difficult to even nap. if youre delivering in kkh: after you delivered, the nurses can refer you to msw (financial help and also will ask if you need emotional/mental help). not sure what they gonna do, but do consult them. doctors there will also ask if you need birth control bla bla bla. just ask them wtv your concerns are. if you feel depressed, do tell them so they can refer you to specialist. dont hide from them bc it can affect you caring for your baby. all those cryings and feedings esp on demand. it will really challenge your limits. stay strong mummy. ❤️